julio parra respect

will how do i get fespect from other people. Will the 1st thing is that they seethat i am respecting them so that they can respect me. the 2nd thing is by gittin respect is by say thank u good by u welcome etc etc.@ school my friends respect is like they know i play soccer. sometimes when i play soccer they come 2 me and they till me if they can play nd i say yes. @ church i get respect by not sleppin and not talkin , not listen in 2 music. @ home i get respect by me doin my chores my parents like that. so that it is folks that how i get the respect